Writing & Media

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Writing has long been one of Holly’s first loves ~ short-form, long-form, any form ~ as a way to explore ideas and bring thoughts to life. Here, you'll find a selection of her work.

Her perspective is shaped by a career as a CIA operations officer and leadership coach, more than two decades coaching teen athletes, and raising three children of her own.

Holly also contributes to publications and appears regularly in podcast conversations on leadership, identity, human connection, and high performance.

BOOK

PINEAPPLE PROMISE: A Thailand Adoption Memoir

The heartfelt memoir of former CIA officer Holly Stofa’s journey to adopt her daughter from Thailand—and the unexpected lessons about love, resilience, and connection along the way.

Through the uncertainty, waiting, and wonder of international adoption, Holly and her husband, Vince, discover that the greatest journeys are not across oceans, but inward.

Available through the BookBaby Bookshop (the best way to support the author) and on Amazon in both print and eBook formats.

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Select Podcast Conversations

Holly joins podcast conversations exploring leadership, identity, human connection, and the human side of high performance.

Success Leaves Clues

Lessons from CIA operations on trust, teamwork, and performing under pressure.

Watch

Super Shy to Super Spy

From shy beginnings to a career in espionage ~ and the power of stepping forward.

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(Sp)identityā„¢

Exploring how identity shapes leadership, decision-making, and performance.

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THRIVE GLOBAL

Today, I Ate The PopTarts©

A small office kitchen, a box of cherry Pop-TartsĀ®, and the quiet rituals of leaving a place that once felt like home. In this reflection, Holly explores what transitions reveal about attachment, closure, and the relationships we build along the way.

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NEWSLETTER

(Sp)identity™ 

Exploring the intersection of identity and performance.

Reflections on leadership, human connection, and the inner work behind high performance ~ written for people carrying real responsibility.

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