About Holly

 

Holly Stofa is a former senior CIA operations officer, leadership coach, speaker, and advisor focused on the human side of high performance.

After nearly twenty-five years working in national security, she saw firsthand how even the most capable leaders can lose connection with themselves in the pursuit of performance. Her work today helps leaders reconnect with their identity, strengthen relationships, and perform at their highest level.

Hi, I'm Holly

I grew up in small-town America and eventually spent nearly twenty-five years as a CIA operations officer working in some of the most complex environments in the world.

Those two worlds ~ small-town roots and global intelligence work ~ shaped how I see leadership, relationships, and performance.

At the CIA, the work required learning to understand people quickly, build trust across cultures, and navigate high-stakes situations where relationships often mattered more than strategy.

Over time, I also had the opportunity to coach and develop leaders inside the Agency ~ helping high-performing professionals navigate demanding roles while staying grounded in who they were.

Working in those environments reinforced something I now see across many high-performing fields: it’s easy to lose ourselves in the pursuit of performance, forgetting who we are as we focus on what we do. The better we stay connected to ourselves, the better we show up for others.

During my career I was honored as CIA’s “Operative of the Year” in my division, a recognition that reflected the importance of trust, relationships, and teamwork in the work we did.

Lessons from the Ops Field

Working in intelligence reinforced a simple truth: relationships are built on trust.

In high-stakes environments, success often depends less on strategy and more on how well we understand people—ourselves included. When leaders stay connected to who they are, they build stronger relationships, make clearer decisions, and perform at a higher level.

Beyond the Ops Field

Some of the most meaningful leadership lessons I’ve learned didn’t come from intelligence work, but from the sidelines of athletic fields.

For decades, I have coached student-athletes, watching young people grow into leaders through discipline, teamwork, and belief in themselves. Sports remain one of the most powerful classrooms for learning how to handle pressure, setbacks, and success with humility.

I am also the mother of three, including two collegiate athletes and a high schooler. Parenting has reinforced the same truth I saw in intelligence work: people perform best when they feel supported, understood, and connected to who they are.

Whether in intelligence, athletics, or family life, the underlying lesson is the same: identity and connection shape how we lead and how we perform.

Today

Today I work with leaders, teams, and organizations navigating complex, high-stakes environments. Through coaching, strategic conversations, and speaking engagements, I help driven people reconnect with who they are, strengthen relationships, and perform at their highest level.

The environments may change, but the lesson remains the same: identity and connection shape how we lead and how we perform.

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